Tantric massage for a woman who comes alone or with her spouse or partner...
Montreal and region (south shore) done by an experienced pratician
The challenge:
Entrust your naked body to the hands and fingers of a stranger !
Conditions for success:
To have enough desire to overcome nervousness.
This mental preparation starts with a good understanding of why you visited this tantric massage website. Your motivation could be:
In coming to see me, you will be dealing with a female sexuality therapist. This encounter is different than one with your gynecologist or a sexologist since my therapy is designed to provide you with
pleasures, contrary to an examination by your gynecologist. As for the sexologist, his treatment is limited to having a conversation with you.
So let us come back to the necessity of having desire and having this sentiment persist upon your arrival and during the treatment. First we will sit down to talk about you, your sexual history and
your objectives coming here. To help reduce your nervousness, I will take your hand in mine and this way communication between our two beings will start establishing itself. During our conversation,
I will explain a few things about your female prostate, the presence of your clitoris bulbs on each side of your vagina and how my fingers will stimulate your vagina. If during the conversation I lay
a hand on your knee, by guiding my hand to your thigh, your excitement will increase greatly and it is excitement that will drive you to sexual pleasures. Dare ! There will be only you and I and I'm not
here to judge you.
Desire brings about excitement which in turn conditions the brain to trigger the orgasm. And we must therefore get you excited because you and I are not engaged sentimentally.
Here are ways to excite you:
1. By letting me undress you and give good cuddles, first after taking clothes off your upper body then once you are entirely naked. You can expect that when I get my own clothes off, that I ask you
if you wish that I remove my short. It is quite clear that by feeling my sex on your stomach, excitement will make you shudder and you will have spasms which will confirm this.
2. If I've undressed you, by letting me spread your labia lips down to the vagina entrance this will activate your Bartholin glands and you will soon feel my wet finger lubricate your vulva.
3. During the massage, my finger will brush your vulva time and time again and will even caress the insides of your labia lips… and it will be important to express your pleasures by either words
(that's good !), growls or by quick respiration. By expressing your feelings this way, you will hear yourself and your brain will understand your excitement and will drive your nervous system.
4. Finally, since I'm asking you to express yourself, when my finger (index) or my fingers (index + middle finger… if your vagina entrance permits it) are in your vagina, they will explore the end
of your vagina and it will be most useful to advise me if it's good or not or if the other spot is better. By letting me know, you gain time and perhaps get to the orgasm quicker.
Be content if my fingers give you pleasures. Do not force yourself to have an orgasm (that's the best way not to have one) and if during your pleasures an orgasm takes place, let it be a surprise !
The other way to do things:
After our conversation, you go to the bathroom to undress by yourself, you empty your bladder and you will then exit the bathroom and lay on the massage table. The difference is that you are not excited,
you don't exactly know how things will go and, in some way, you undergo the treatment whishing that something good for you will take place. This way you start the treatment by being passive !
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