It is better for a woman to have pleasure rather than an orgasm without pleasure.
But to have both pleasure and an orgasm is tops.
I will explain these things upon your arrival, but I will do it here so that you may take time to understand;
Pleasure:. Orgasm: Pleasure and orgasm: This page cannot be copied in whole or in part with permission from massage-tantra.ca
For a woman when I prepare her to climax, pleasure takes birth in her brain. And the key is to live fully the Present Moment. Therefore, the woman feels the effects of my hands and fingers on
all parts of her body to savor each touch as a gift to her body… a special attention to her flesh which triggers a reaction in her nervous system and this is communicated to her brain. A series
of touches to awake each particle… to make new erogenous zones which bring pleasure as if the labia lips would cover the entire body length, understand? Pleasure requires the woman to relax
completely and let herself go.
The good way to build up this pleasure is to express it. I will ask you to react with words or making groans with your mouth and your brain will hear you and get excited and I will hear you and
will get to know what is best to give you pleasure. When my finger will travel inside one of your labia lips on its entire length and will brush your clitoris, I expect you to react, so, if I
hear you while I carress you between the labia lips and your thighs or on your pubic area or on the lower contour of your breasts, I'll understand that pleasure is present in your brain for good.
Understand that it is best for a woman to experience pleasure than to have an orgasm without pleasure.
A well stimulated woman can have an orgasm from the clitoris or her vagina even in the absence of pleasure. This often happens while masturbating. If I stimulate your clitoris or your vagina or
both at the same time, and you are tense and contract your perineum which will tighten up your buttocks and the vagina muscles, and if you don't force yourself to have an orgasm, you may get one.
However, these orgasms will not cause pleasure but will rather release tension as is often the case with masturbation. You have therefore been masturbated !
That is the goal and the achievement. The woman must carry herself as explained in the above paragraph "Pleasure". Therefore, complete relaxation and proper enjoyment of my touches
to the point of feeling pleasure. And if you enter in an emotional resonance with me, that will trigger a more intense compassion coupled with a more active solicitude, because with my experience,
I will be able to realize what your needs are.
And when I get to stimulate her vagina including good attention to her clitoris, the woman who experiences these pleasures, can move her belly as she would do for a belly-dance, and then upon my
asking, she contracts her perineum which will tighten up her buttocks and her vagina muscles. As she does this, blood circulation will increase in her vagina and this will make her receptive to
her brain's command for an orgasm.
Therefore, orchestrating stimulations, pleasures and physical prompting will allow this sexual symphony which is so desired.