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Ejaculation, How to do it

For a woman, here's how to learn to ejaculate by one-self. To start with, you should not feel yourself morally diminish or shameful by this gesture of masturbation... the word is precise in this case and you should accept the gesture as a manifestation of nature created by God with your help, as He is part of your soul. So be comfortable before, during and after caressing yourself.

Personal stimulation is key to learn how to do this. Therefore, caress yourself once a day, if possible, in the following fashion:

a) Lay yourself on the bed naked

b) pleasure yourself to become as excitated as possible, caress your breasts, make your nipples become very hard, massage your vulva

c) finger your clitoris to increase your excitment but short of getting an orgasm for the moment

d) use your index to enter your vagina and apply pressure on the top side (towards the stomach), where the feminine prostate is located (G spot), and, with your finger, apply pressure under the pubic bone (two finger phalanx in length) and repeat again and again because that's where your finger pressure will make the prostate squeeze the urethra canal against the pubic bone and that will set the Skene glands under way to generate prostatic liquid (the ejaculate).

e) have your middle finger join your index finger to apply pressure on your prostate. If you feel a need to urinate, your at the right spot. If you feel pain in your vagina, stop the fingering and wait for the next day. Make sure not to have an enema or vaginal shower.

f) go deeper with your finger(s) to reach the tail end of your prostate thus providing wonderful sensations while producing more vaginal secretions in a pool which you will feel with your fingers thus causing you to become more excited.

g) bring back your fingers at the opening of the vagina then have them go back in but this time at 1 finger phalanx in lenght to find that your prostate has increased in size. If that's the case, if you feel a need to urinate, you are at the right spot and enter your fingers to a length of 2 phalanx and apply pressure repeatedly on the prostate and, at the same time, stimulate your clitoris towards an orgasm (CO) while you maintain applying pressure on the prostate at a quicker pace and let yourself go...




When ejaculation comes about, either it gets triggered by bladder movement or by your PC muscles which twist your vagina every which way. Expulsion of the ejaculate can be at the Skene glands orifice (see illustration thereof on the left) or in the vagina or both.

h) alternatively, once ejaculation has started (or about to begin), let your fingers go in, at full length, to find the tail end of the prostate, apply pressure at a quick pace to trigger the vaginal orgasm (VO). After ejaculation, drink.

The key factor, here, is excitement but, very important, to not resist the need to urinate. And, you should know that caressing yourself during menstruation period is a therapy bringing about pleasure instead of pain and the need to be medicated... in fact, in that period, the VO orgasms provide better sensations. Same is true during ovulation period.

ATTENTION: If the use of fingers is unpleasant, you could use a dildo, such as found in the following page: Dildos I recommend selection of one with a curved head so as to push the prostate against the pubic bone.

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