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For a woman who says: « Yes, let's do it! »
Both of you will not be surprised to read that men and women don't know enough about a woman's body (for example the existence of the
female prostate and it's very important role in her sexuality).
The lost of desire and/or pleasure comes, most of the time, from the fact that we believe to know everything about our partner, thus blocking the discovery of new sexual pleasures. Sexuality is a domain where routine is a serious menace and it can bring about uninspiring mechanical gestures. But your partner wishes to learn and he will be by my side and will replace me, when prompted.
Many couples come to me for treatment and what they discover here is most precious. But sometimes (too often I must say) the woman comes because her husband wants her to discover a certain sexual pleasure and the question becomes: is she coming for herself or to please him. The difference is important because if she comes for him, the effect is that she will feel uneasy to be touched by another man and when that happens, the treatment is useless. In the case of a woman who comes alone, it is evident that she wants this and she will be excited… which is essential so that her brain can allow her to have pleasures. The woman who comes with her husband must come becomes she wants this… so husband, take note that you should not insist on her coming, that you should let her read my pages and let desire to discover new sexual pleasures build up and the best thing you can do is let her make arrangements with me for an appointment. It will then be her initiative and not her husband's. The difference is psychologically important. The woman must accept that another man will love her body and that her husband will heartily accept this. .
ATTENTION: If you are incapable of having an orgasm with a man, not even when he stimulates your clitoris, I invite you to immediately click and read the following page:
Woman who cannot have an orgasm with a man
Here are four good reasons to come as a couple:
1. Loss of libido by the woman in the couple. Serious reduction in vaginal secretions. They say that 40 % of women living in monogamous couple have a hypo-active libido and in the US, they are about to introduce a " Viagra for women " to trigger this desire deficit. But beware, this is not a miracle remedy ! In fact there's a better solution, see my page: Libido
2. The couple wishes to find better/new pleasures in their sexual relations to put an end to their more or less "mechanical" routine. As a therapist in female sexuality, I invite you to read the link for:
School of Love. And I can assure you that women love to have 4 hands on their body... my 2 hands and those of her spouse! An interesting way to live your fantasy.
3. Many men always ejaculate prematurely and suffer for not being able to give pleasure to their wives and certainly not an orgasm. If you decide to come as a couple, I will stimulate her with my fingers so she may attain a vaginal orgasm, then, I will ask him to replace me and under my direction and her guidance, your wife will have her second orgasm because of your own stimulations. Thereafter, in your own intimacy, she will always be pleasured by his fingering and weather he ejaculates prematurely or not will not be important… in fact, once the pressure of premature ejaculation is removed, he may very well acquire greater control on himself !
4. You wish to be initiated to vaginal orgasm but you want that only your spouse be the one to enter his fingers in your vagina. Therefore, when the time comes, your spouse will be asked to replace me and will follow my directives so that his stimulations provide you with good results. In the list of objectives, in the "Contact" page, see objective # 1a.
5. You are a couple… but your couple consists of two women. Let me show you how to stimulate yourselves to attain vaginal orgasms (G spot). Consult my page which concerns: TWO WOMEN AS A COUPLE You have this fantasy or desire to have a sexual experience with another woman but you don't know one within your friends or do not dare propose such an encounter… but, should you request me to arrange this, perhaps I can organise this and make it happen. So visit the following page: Woman wishing to touch and be touched in turn by another woman
6. If you are a couple not concerned by your sexuality but with your problem to show affection and tenderness between you, I invite you to come for an afternoon or an evening for a cuddling experience with me. There will be no Tantric massage but all three of us will rather cuddle, demonstrate affection and discover ourselves. I will show you how your body can express itself. Mrs can take place between us men or I can place myself between you. I say this because in certain cases Mr. could be ready to cuddle me, a stranger, to see what it provides before daring to do it to his wife. Same for her… she can test things on me than turn around and do it to her husband. I'll be happy to be your guinea pig. For details, click on the following link: CUDDLING In my opinion, a couple that don't cuddle misses the essential in their togetherness. Cuddling is opening the door to emotions between two people, who "think" of themselves as lovers. It is clear that without cuddles, the couple's sexual life is somewhat a misfit. So lady, if asking him to accompany you here to learn how to cuddle and the benefits of cuddling is beyond your capacity, come yourself, alone, and perhaps upon returning, you may initiate things unimagined between you but that could open the door to your dormant love.
Does one of the following situations apply in your couple:
Mrs wishes to improve her pleasures in sexual relations and, for that reason, she is willing to receive a Tantric treatment which includes the Yoni (female sex) massage, knowing that Mr. will be receptive as he is the one to propose the Tantric encounter.
And, menopause certainly affects your sexual life and can complicate things seriously. Read the following article on the matter by clicking the following link: MENOPAUSE I can state that some couples have been helped by my service and are now using alternative technics in their sex life. Mr. knows that Mrs has a need, and that he should learn a few things. He is there because he loves her very much.
If you wish to understand the Biology of Love, I recommend reading the following article and find out about what takes place chemically in your brain to cause Lust, Attraction and Attachment. The following article will explain: The Biology of Love
If you have lived as a couple for a number of years, there comes a point where chemicals associated with love, like all drugs, come to a point of saturation. The next step is to consider the importance of attachment and act accordingly. Here's an article on Oxytocin, and how to activate this hormone for a long and lasting relationship as a couple: Oxytocin
How the encounter takes place and active participation for Mr:
Before the massage gets underway, we first have
a conversation, to determine the objectives, and I explain the procedure.
Then Mrs goes to the change room to get undressed and, more often than not, Mr. follows her to get undressed as well (a bath robe is there, available for his convenience).
The Massage for a woman takes place, as you can read in the proceeding link, on a Tao & Zen music score, very appropriate for the occasion. Mr often gets up from his seat to get in a strategic position to capture important movements of the masseur's hands. Mr is very attentive during the Yoni (feminine sex) massage. I ask Mrs if the pressure movements of my fingers are at the right spot on her prostate.
Mrs, if you are reading this page, chances are that it is because Mr. made the suggestion to do so. And, if that is the case, Mr. may want to learn to give you new pleasures.
The Tantric massage for a couple is important for the following reasons:
Mrs cannot explain to Mr. how to give her joy inside...
Mr. knows that she did have a " G " spot orgasm in the past but he doesn't know what to do, to achieve this.
Mrs can occasionally get a " G " spot orgasm when alone, but, never with Mr.
Or, in many cases, Mrs has heard of the " G " spot but believes her's is deficient. However, she is willing to try getting it stimulated. Link to the G spot webpage
In closing, I would like to say the following to Mrs,
If Mr. is suggesting that both of you should
come to see me, to get this Tantric massage for you, give
yourself a break and make an act of faith for your own good and
for the success of your lives as a couple because he is ready to give you new pleasures. But if you are willing to come only to make him happy, it never works... it's a loss of time.
And after her massage if Mrs would like to see him also be massaged, and perhaps assist the masseur in so doing, that would be nice... men love to see two women touching themselves, so the reverse is not true?
For an appointment or to ask questions, click the Contact tab up above. Specify the day and time you wish for the appointment. In the meantime, take note that it takes 10 minutes travelling time to get here from the south end exit of the Lafontaine tunnel/bridge.
I am a professional in my field and I will act with great respect. Please note that a Tantric massage is not a therapy to heal muscle pains and not a sexual service and no such sexual service will be proposed nor will such sex service request be accepted.
Note that you may be accompanied.
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If you are reading this page because you've never had an orgasm with a partner (man or woman), and you are seeking to find the solution, I invite you to click the following link and to read the page that concerns you : Woman who cannot have an orgasm with a man
Reason why my service should not be offered as a surprise "gift"... check it out:
Reason why my service should not be offered as a "surprise gift"
Should you be interested in reading the experience of other women treated here, simply click the follwong link: Results
If you are a past client of mine and discovered with my treatment the pleasures of vaginal orgasm and perhaps also female ejaculation. But since then, the new man in your life doesn't know how to give you these pleasures, and you don't know or cannot explain to him how to stimulate you... then click the following: Let me show him
You have desires to have new sexual experiences ? But infidelity is intolerable ? Read the following page to consider a solution which may very well embellish your couple's life: POLYSEXUALITY